Prostate Massage: A Plain Guide to What Happens

A prostate massage means gently stimulating the prostate, a small gland found just beneath the bladder in men. There are two approaches: external, where light pressure is applied to the perineum (the area just behind the scrotum, between the legs), and internal, using a gloved finger with plenty of lubricant. It has a long medical background, and many men also find it very relaxing and enjoyable. With an escort it is treated as a specialist service: arranged beforehand, taken slowly, with careful hygiene and lots of communication.

What is a prostate massage?

The prostate is about the size of a walnut. It belongs to the male reproductive system and makes part of the fluid in semen. Plenty of sensitive nerve endings surround it, which explains why slow, gentle pressure on or around it can create intense sensations. A prostate massage is just that pressure, applied carefully, normally within a longer and relaxing massage rather than on its own.

The medical background

Checking the prostate is a standard part of men’s health examinations, and for many years doctors used prostate massage to treat chronic prostatitis. Medicine rarely uses it now, but that history is why so many people know the term.

A sensual massage of this kind is not medical treatment, and it is no substitute for one. Anyone with pain, bleeding or haemorrhoids, a diagnosed prostate problem, or a recent operation in that area should talk to their GP before booking. This page offers general information, not medical advice.

Prostate massage as a sensual service

Ladies willing to offer it show prostate massage on their profiles. It is normally paired with another massage, for example an unhurried tantric massage, whose slow rhythm suits it. Many men begin with the external approach alone, which is gentler and an easy way to discover whether they enjoy it. Our London erotic massage guide compares the main styles.

We charge for time and escortship. Whatever is intimate stays private between consenting adults, and she can say no to anything she isn’t comfortable with, even when it appears on her profile.

Hygiene and getting ready

• Have a thorough shower before the massage starts. She’ll be grateful, and you’ll find it easier to relax.
• Go to the toilet first and skip a heavy meal for a few hours beforehand.
• She will wear disposable gloves and use lots of lubricant. That is standard practice and means nothing more.
• Towels and wipes will be ready, so you don’t need to arrange anything.

Consent and communication

With this service, conversation counts for more than usual. Bring it up at the booking stage so the concierge only suggests ladies willing to do it. When you meet, let her know if it’s new to you and whether you’d like to keep to the external approach.

During the massage, say what you feel. Short words are best: “lighter”, “slower”, “perfect”, “stop”. A skilled masseuse will build up very gradually and check how you are. Either of you may stop at any moment, for any reason, and that is absolutely fine. Our guide to domination and submission follows the same ideas of clear limits and simple signals.

Booking a prostate massage in London

Incall is often the more comfortable option, since her room already has towels and a decent shower. Look through incall escorts or our prostate massage profiles, pick a lady, then phone or WhatsApp us via the booking page. Give us her name, the time, the length of booking, and say you’d like a prostate massage included. We’ll confirm, normally within 15 minutes, and you can see who is free today if you’d like to go shortly.

Give yourself time: an hour incall starts at £200 (most ladies charge around £300), and many clients choose two hours, about £500, so nothing is hurried. If a profile term is new to you, see our escort terms guide, and for everyday courtesies, read escort etiquette.